Friday, December 7, 2012

Boys and Girls are in fact, very different.

When we found out we were pregnant with a little girl,
I was of course over the moon excited.

On top of buying toy cars, 
we would also be buying baby dolls
(and cute little tutus and bows)

But,
how much different can being a boy mama be
from being a girl mama?

Well,
I'm here to tell you
that IT IS very different.

In fact,
my husband and I
find ourselves telling each other on a daily basis
how different aidan and haylee are from each other.

Aidan has always been an "easy" baby
so to speak.

Never really fussed,
and pretty much slept through the night by
the time he was four months old.

He has never been interested in picking up
small things off the floor
and putting them in his mouth,
or try to shove things in an outlet.

We could have totally gotten away
with not baby proofing the house.

He is very laid back,
and does have his moments when he likes
to be rambunctious.
But for the most part,
he tends to just go with the flow.

You can pretty much give him
a stick and some dirt
and it'll keep him entertained for hours.

And then,
there is haylee.

This little girl HAS to know everything.

If she finds something on the floor,
she NEEDS to know what it is by putting it in her mouth
or by trying to shove it into an outlet.

The ornaments on the Christmas tree?
yeah, about those.

 Well, they are pretty much gone,
thanks to little miss curiosity over here.

NEVER
 leave hydrocortisone cream
or diaper rash ointment within her reach,
because she will get it and eat it.
Along with baby wipes.

I have to constantly
pull her away from the trash can
because she likes digging in there for things.

And don't even get me started with the temper tantrums.

This little girl is the queen of temper tantrums.
When she can't have something,
she will throw herself on the floor,
kick and scream,
and will stop for a second
to look back at us and see if we are listening.

Could it be a girl thing?
Maybe.

Since we tend to be more open with how we're feeling.

I have also come to realize,
 that my husband and I are the same way.

He doesn't care about finding details
about certain things.

I, on the other hand, do.

I have to know what happened,
when it happened,
and how it happened.

Maybe that's why he tells me
that women are crazy.

Before,
I would have to told him
"typical thing for a guy to say."

But now that I have a daughter,
I'm starting to believe it.

Sometimes I find myself asking him
"how do you put up with me?" ha!

I guess it takes to have both a son and a daughter
to realize all this things.

23 comments:

  1. There's no hope for us, my boys are in to everything Haylee is in to so the arrival of Olivia could spell disaster. I'm hoping that every child's different and she is a goody two shoes and avoids doing what her rat bag brothers are doing.

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  2. Hi there! I'm Hanna. I found you through Tuesday's blog hop, I'm just really late:) I love making new friends!!! I am your newest follower via GFC. Happy Holidays! You can find me at www.bouffeebambini.blogspot.com

    xooxo Hanna

    I couldn;t agree more. my kids are night and day

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  3. It's crazy how different two kids can be.

    I'm scared to see how different this new baby will be because my first is easy breezy.

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  4. My daughter likes to eat baby wipes too, what is with that?!

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  5. Hi, I found you via the blog hop and I just adore your blog. The layout & the content are both spot on! Great job! I'm your newest follower. If you could take a peak at mine, I'd love it :) Have a wonderful weekend!

    xo,
    Brani Laine
    thatsjustlovelyb.blogspot.com

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  6. PS. Your weight loss story!!! WOW! AMAZING!!! So inspiring, really and truly. I couldn't believe my eyes. I wish I had that motivation. How did you get it? I have a hard time getting off my booty and to the gym... :-/

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  7. I have two girls and will tell you this both girls are champion whiners. That said my second is more like Haylee and will throw a temper tantrum just to hear herself. She is the one that I just posted yesterday was found up to her elbows in the toilet bowl. You have Haylee and we have Lily. So happy to have found your blog through the Hop and will be following from now on :)

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  8. It's fascinating being a parent and experiencing just how different two children can be.My oldest sounds similar to yours. He is more cautious, more likely to play on his own, very mellow. My daughter on the other hand has been a different story as well. For the most part I have chalked their differences up to first, second child things. She knows more and is curious about more because she has an older brother to watch.
    There are definitely gender differences though and more so as they get older. Her fascination with baby dolls and my little ponies is not shared by her older brother. Her chattiness and need to play with others and be social...not shared. She just can not play by herself and tends to be a bit more dramatic. I really think that those traits are the girl coming out in her. Will be interesting to see how my baby on the way plays into the mix. We don't know gender yet, but will find out soon.

    Following back from the blog hop!

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  9. Well...as mom to four girls I can't really speak to raising boys vs. girls. But I can say that each child is SO different. In temperament and overall personality there are a lot of differences between them. One is sensitive and sweet. The other cries (or fake cries) about most anything. One is rough and tumble--has energy for days and one volume level--loud. And the fourth gets right up in the mix! She is confident and knows what she wants. Wouldn't trade them!

    Thanks for linking up this week at the MTMmixer!

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  10. this is too funny. When my son was 6 years old we had a big birthday party and invited his whole class to come. The little girls came in party dresses (in those days) and stood around talking to each other. The boys came in and tackled each other to the ground and generally were rowdy. It was an eye opener. There is a VAST difference between boys and girls. Nice visiting. Funny. Linda

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  12. Haha boys and girls are soooo different for sure, and I'm sure I'll know that even more once I'm a mother like you are! I love this post, though. Fun comparisons of your cute kids. :)

    Thanks for stopping by my blog! I'm following you back now!
    Jessica
    What's in a Name?

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  13. We definitely have this dynamic in our family, but we had the girl first. It has made everything so much easier with our son, because we keep expecting challenges from him that never come. He's just way more easy-going than our daughter. Which like you said is exactly how we (my husband and I) are!

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  14. Hi from your newest follower! I found you at the Meet & Greet blog hop at Created by Laurie.
    http://violetsbuds.blogspot.com/

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  15. This is beautifully written. I love how different little boys and girls are. Such fun personalities :)

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  16. I'm a new follower! I found your blog through GFC Collective Blog Hop. When I was reading this I was realizing that everything you wrote about your little boy sounds just like mine! He's our first and he's only 3 months old, but we already joke that any brothers or sisters that he will have will probably be absolutely crazy because he's been so easy. :)

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  17. This is SO true in our family too! You could have been describing my kids exactly. Our boy is so laid back and then my daughter came along...and she's not so laid back--at all! Can't believe how similar my daughter sounds to yours. Thanks for linking up with the #MTMmixer :)
    Meredith
    www.themomoftheyear.net

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  18. Hi I found you through the GFC Blog Hop and followed :-) Feel free to visit my blog anytime.

    kisses Pakize (Keke)

    http://madamekeke.blogspot.com

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  19. Well said!!! Boys are so much more easy going than girls. Thank you so much for participating in our Aloha Friday Blog Hop!! I am following you, of course!! Wishing you and yours a lovely week!!

    Aloha,

    Jean {What Jean Likes}

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  20. Hi maria what an interesting post! Ive always wondered the difference between being a boy or girl mama. See i always thought ill end up having boys but for some reason i ended up with 2 girls! So i can onky imagine n wonder haha. My 2nd girl is 10 mths and shes queen of tantrums too lol. I found u through the blog hop and am following now. Would love it if u could visit me at www.makemeupmandy.com :) its lovely to meet u and i hope to catch up with your posts and get to know u better :)

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  21. Thanks so much for joining in on the GFC hop! I'm excited to be a new follower!
    ((Hugs))
    Heather
    stringtownhome.blogspot.com

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  22. Great post! Visiting from the hop

    xo, Emily
    BlueDogBelle.blogspot.com

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  23. At the moment I’m expecting for a baby and this post seems to be very useful for me and I have hopes on a baby girl.

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